Akukho mfihlo kuye nabani na ukuba, njengoko ixesha kunye nempucuko yabantu iyaphuhlisa, isayensi kunye neteknoloji wadala, yenza iimeko eziqhelekileyo okanye zemveli zobomi, kokubini okulungileyo nokubi, ukutshintsha kwaye ukuziqhelanisa ne Amaxesha amatsha. Umzekelo isiqu ngokuchaseneyo omnye komnye, ngoku iyenzeka ngenxa Internet. Phakathi kwezinye iimeko ezininzi zobomi. Yiyo loo nto namhlanje siza kuphonononga esi sihloko sibalulekileyo malunga "Yintoni eyenzekayo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo".
Ukongeza, kufanelekile ukuyicacisa into yokuba, njengoko ulwimi lwesiNgesi luhlala luphambili kwihlabathi liphela ukuhambisa izimvo kunye neengqikelelo, igama "ukukhangela" isithetha ntonye "Hlala kwaye Ukuxhaphaza" okanye isenzo se "Landela umntu". Ngokuqinisekileyo, nge-elektroniki okanye ngokwedijithali, nokuba, nge Internet, iiwebhusayithi ezikhethekileyo, amaqonga e-RRSS, njengoko I-Facebook kunye ne-Instagram, phakathi kwabanye; nokuba iinkqubo zemiyalezo ekhawulezileyo, njengoko I-WhatsApp kunye neTelegram, phakathi kwabanye.
Kodwa, ngaphambi kokuqhubeka nale post malunga "Yintoni eyenzekayo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo", sicebisa ukuba emva koko ujonge ezinye eziluncedo umxholo onxulumeneyo wangaphambili nge-RRSS, njenge:
Yintoni i-Stalking?: Ukuxhatshazwa ngoku kukwi-intanethi
Yintoni i-Stalker kwaye kutheni abantu behamba?
Un Stalker, inokuchazwa ngokufutshane njenge umntu ochitha ixesha lakhe ehlola ukuba yintoni enye elayishwayo kunye neyenzayo kwi-Intanethi (ingakumbi kwi-RRSS kunye neeNkqubo zeMiyalezo). Nangona kunjalo, oko kukodwa akukwenzi ngokungagqibekanga a umlandeli. Kuba, ngenxa yoku, kuyimfuneko ukuba ivakalelwe kwaye yaziwe.
Lo nto, xa esiya kwinqwelomoya yokubonwa, ukwazisa ixhoba lakho okanye abantu besithathu ukuba uyasilandela kwaye uqokelele ulwazi lwethu, ngeenjongo ezithile okanye ezingamiselwanga, kukuba ube "umlandeli", Ngayo yonke ingqiqo yegama.
Ekubeni, nangona umsebenzi ezi "ababukeli abathe cwaka" Ngokuqhelekileyo iqala ngezinto ezimbalwa ezilula "Like" okanye "Yabelana", phantse rhoqo ngaxa lithile, ngena kwisenzo sokunxibelelana ne "umntu ojolisekileyo" (ixhoba); mhlawumbi, ngokubhala, izimvo kumxholo othunyelwe ngumntu oxhatshazwayo, ukuthumela imiyalezo yangasese okanye ngokuthe ngqo kwixhoba okanye abantu besithathu abaziwayo.
“Igama lesiNgesi laziwa ngokuba yi<em>stalkear, elisuka kwisenzi esithi «ukunyoba» elithetha ukuthi “umtshutshisi”, “umtshutshisi”. Eli gama lisetyenziswa kumntu ongcungcuthekisayo, otshutshisayo, ocaphukisayo ngokuzingisileyo omnye umntu, othi kwiimeko ezininzi abe ngusaziwayo. Intsingiselo yokulandela
Izizathu ezinokubangela ukuba umntu abe nguStalker
Phakathi kwezizathu ezinokubangela ukuba umntu abe ngumntu ongamaziyo okanye omaziyo kwi-Intanethi, ukuya kwi-digital stalker (Stalker) ngokusemandleni, sinokukhankanya oku kulandelayo:
- Ingxaki yengqondo okanye ukuphazamiseka kwemvelaphi yengqondo.
- Ukwaliwa kwentlalo yexhoba okanye abantu besithathu, abaziwayo nabangaziwa.
- Umnqweno owongamileyo nongalawulekiyo (obsession) wokufuna ukuba nonxibelelwano loluntu okanye ukusondelana ngokwesondo nexhoba.
- Ukwenziwa kwephupha, impindezelo okanye isohlwayo (intiyo), kunye okanye ngexhoba, okanye abanye babo babathandayo.
- Uphando ngeenjongo zolwaphulo-mthetho, nokuba kukubiwa kwezazisi ngokwamaxwebhu okanye iiakhawunti kwi-Intanethi, okanye ubusela, ubuqhophololo okanye ukuxhwilwa kwexhoba okanye amaqela angaphandle anxulumeneyo.
Indlela yokuphepha i-Stalkers?
Ukunqanda oku, unokulandela la macebiso:
- Qwalasela ubumfihlo beenethiwekhi zethu zentlalo kunye neenkqubo zokuthumela imiyalezo ngoko nangoko kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kwaye ngokwemidla okanye iimfuno esizibona ziyimfuneko.
- Sukuthumela ulwazi malunga nekhaya lethu elithile, umsebenzi okanye iindawo zokufunda, singasathethi ke ngokuzenzekela, okanye ubuncinane zibonakale esidlangalaleni nakubani na.
- Kuphephe ukupapasha imifanekiso enovakalelo enokuthi ibe nezinto ezinokusenza sijongwe, njengabo sibathandayo (abantwana, abazali, iqabane) okanye izindlu kunye neendawo abahlala kuzo.
- Musa ukupapasha idatha ethile okanye imifanekiso, malunga nezinto ezixabisekileyo zomntu, ezifana: amakhadi ebhanki, izivumelwano, izitshixo, iinombolo zomnxeba, ii-imeyile, iidilesi, ubucwebe, imali, izixhobo, phakathi kwabanye.
- Jonga ukuba abanye abantu bathumela ntoni ngathi, ngakumbi xa besimaka. Ngale nto kuluncedo ukuqinisekisa iimvume abalandeli okanye abahlobo bethu abanazo, xa ufikelela kulwazi esilupapashayo.
- Musa ukwamkela izicelo zobuhlobo ezivela kubantu abangaziwayo, kwi-RRSS, njengale: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, phakathi kwabanye abaninzi. Kwaye kwimeko yokuzamkela, kuphephe ukubanika naluphi na uhlobo lolwazi lomntu siqu, olunje: ii-imeyile, iinombolo zomnxeba, iidilesi, phakathi kwezinye.
- Xela nayiphi na imiyalezo ngqo okanye yabucala evela kubantu ongabaziyo. Njengo, ii-imeyile ezikrokrisayo. Kwaye kuphephe ukucofa imixholo yayo, kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuthintela usulelo lwentsholongwane okanye ukubiwa kwedatha. Kwaye xa ubona nayiphi na imeko ekrokrisayo yomntu kwi-Intanethi, yixele phambi kwabasemagunyeni.
Isishwankathelo
Ngamafutshane, kwaye ngoku siyazi "Yintoni eyenzekayo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo", kunokwenzeka izizathu kunye neziphumo, eyona nto ingcono sinokuyenza kukulandela unobumba othi iingcebiso ezilungileyo kunye nezenzo ezilungileyo; kwimiba ye ukhuseleko lwekhompyutha kunye nokusetyenziswa kwe I-RRSS kunye neenkqubo zokuthumela imiyalezo ngoko nangoko, ukuphepha ukujoliswa ngaba bantu. Ekubeni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziziphi na izizathu okanye umnqweno wokuba ubani asixhaphaze, eyona nto ilungileyo kukusoloko usinyamekela nokukhusela iminwe kunye nomfanekiso wedijithali kwi-Intanethi, kangangoko sinako.
khumbula ukwabelana ngale nto isikhokelo esikhawulezayo esinxulumene nomphunga, ukuba uyayithanda kwaye iluncedo. Kwaye ungalibali ukujonga ezinye izifundo kwi yethu yewebhu, ukuqhubeka nokufunda ngakumbi.