Olo suku luza ngexesha elithile ebomini bethu kuye ngamnye wethu.. Abanye bakhetha ukungayenzi ngendlela eqhelekileyo kwaye abanye abantu bathatha isigqibo sokuba bodwa. Kodwa ukuze sifikelele kuloo mzuzu, sonke siye sacinga ngendlela oluya kuba ngayo usuku lwethu olukhethekileyo. Usuku lokuzibophelela komnye umntu oluya kuhlala ubomi bonke, ukuba yonke into ihamba njengoko kulindelekile. Ngaloo mini, nabo basondeleyo kuthi bafuna ukuba ngabalinganiswa, yiyo loo nto siza kufundisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuvuyisana nomtshato ku-WhatsApp.
Usapho, izihlobo, abantu obaqhelileyo kunye nabantu ongasabakhumbuliyo bavela kumgca wexesha likaWhatsApp ukuze bavuyisane nathi.. Yinto esiyibhiyozelayo sonke, kuba lusuku lokuqinisekisa uthando phakathi kwabantu ababini. Yiyo loo nto sifuna ukuba yinxalenye yolu nxulumaniso, njengabalinganiswa okanye abalingani. Ukuba ungomnye wabo bafumanisa kuqala, uya kufuna ukuba ukuvuyisana kwakho kube yeyona nto ikhethekileyo.
Ngesi sizathu silungiselele iindlela ezithile zokuvuyisana nomtshato nge-WhatsApp ukuze ube ngoyena woqobo kubahlobo okanye kusapho lwakho. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuhlala ukhunjulwa ngaloo nkcukacha ikhethekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ungalibali ukuvuyisana nomntu othandekayo. Ekubeni, ukuba kufuphi nabo, iintsuku ezimbalwa ukusuka kwisiganeko sokubhiyozela zonke izinto ezilungileyo, kungcono kunokuthumela umyalezo.. Kodwa khumbula ukuba loo miyalezo inokufakwa kwividiyo kwisimemo ngokwayo.
Amabinzana amafutshane, kodwa akhuthazayo
Izivakalisi zokuqala esiza kuzibonisa zimfutshane kakhulu. Kodwa isigidimi sakhe sizaliswe luthando nothando. La ngamabinzana angqalileyo kwaye amaninzi awo anobuntu. Oku kunokukunceda ukuba ngumzalwana, umhlobo osondeleyo okanye umntu osondeleyo kakhulu.
- «Uthando lwenziwa ngumphefumlo omnye, ohlala emizimbeni emibini«. Le ndlela yokuvuyisana nayo isondelelene kakhulu, ivelisa ukusondelana okukhulu nothando kubantu abatshatayo. Inokusetyenziswa xa umntu engumhlobo wesibini. Kuba unothando olukhulu kubo bobabini kwaye ubhiyozela ukuba abantu ababini obathandayo baye babelana ngobomi babo.
- «Uthando akunyanzelekanga ukuba lugqibelele, kufuneka lunyaniseke.«. Eli libinzana kakhulu umama okanye utata, okanye abasebukhweni. Umntu ofuna yonke into ihambe kakuhle, kodwa ngubani owaziyo ukuba ayizizo zonke izinto eziya kulunga kubudlelwane. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ngokunyanisekileyo yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle.
- «Ndiyathanda / Sinqwenela ukuba nithandane ngawo wonke umnqweno«. Umyalezo omnandi ovela kumhlobo. Amaxesha amaninzi ezi ntlobo zemiyalezo zinikwa xa ungumhlobo olungileyo. Okanye ngabahlobo abambalwa abafuna ukunika umyalezo kunye. Into abayivayo ngokwabo, bakunqwenelela yona.
- «Kumtshakazi nomyeni, sikunqwenelela ulonwabo olukhulu kwihlabathi«. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba usisihlobo sesi sibini kwaye uyathanda ukunika inqaku, eli libinzana lakho. Ngaphandle kokungena kwiinkcukacha kwaye uthethe into enkulu, esi sivakalisi sifika engqondweni. Ngathi ubusele u toast emtshatweni.
- «Uthando lwakho lolona kubetha lukhulu ebomini bam«. Eli binzana lenziwa ukuba lithethwe phakathi kwesibini ngokwaso. Ibinzana elibonisa unxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu ababini kunye nendlela abavakalelwa ngayo xa besondelelene kwaye bethandana. Ibinzana elinokusetyenziswa ngaphambi komtshato, xa umtshakazi nomyeni bengakwazi ukubonana.
Amabinzana abahlobo, awona ahlekisayo
Ngaphakathi kwesi seti yamabinzana othando, kuya kuhlala kukho amabinzana ahlekisayo avela kubahlobo kwiqela le-WhatsApp. Eso sikhuseli sabahlobo apho kuthethwa ububhanxa kuphela kwaye kuthunyelwa ii-gifs, izitikha okanye izinto ezingenangqondo kakhulu, naxa kubhengezwa umtshato welungu. Sonke siyazi ukuba ingantoni na. Kodwa xa into efana nale ibhengezwa, umyalezo wokuqala uqinisekile ukunika inqaku kancinci, ungayenza ngale miyalezo.
- «Lonwabele elo xesha likhethekileyo, kuba asizange sicinge ukuba nabani na unokukunyamezela ixesha elide kangako«. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, eli binzana linokuthiwa ngumntu othi, ngaphezu kokuzithemba, uhlala ehlekisa. Ingakumbi xa kuthethwa ngomhlobo osoloko ubhala ububhanxa.
- «I-Casamentol: Iyeza elichasene nomnqweno wokutshata«. Ukuba umyeni okanye umtshakazi banamathandabuzo ngomzuzu wokugqibela, mhlawumbi iyeza elinjalo linokuba luncedo kubo. Ikhatshwa ngu a isitika esihle, lo myalezo unokuba yintsusa kakhulu kwaye ubangele ukuhleka.
- «Sivuyisana nawe! Unyaka wokuqala womtshato ngowona unzima, ezinye azinakwenzeka.«. Hayi ibinzana elihle kumntu ogqiba ukutshata nomntu ngonaphakade, owaziyo ukuba uya kuba ngumhlobo wabo kwakhona, nangona ngokuqinisekileyo kuhlekisayo.
- «Baphilele umtshakazi nomyeni...! Kwaye umdlalo uphelile?«. Ibinzana eliqhelekileyo esaziyo ukuba wonke umhlobo uyoyika ukulifumana. Ngaba buya kupheliswa ubuhlobo? Mhlawumbi akunjalo, kodwa zonke ezo bhiya zisebharini zinokuthatyathelwa indawo yipaki ezele ngabantwana. Ngubani owaziyo!
Amanye amabinzana angaphezu kwasekuqaleni okuvuyisana nawo
Ukongeza kumabinzana angaphambili, sinokushiya enye into ekhethekileyo. Ibinzana elingelokuqala kuphela, kodwa elenzelwe wena, oko kuchaza ulwalamano lwakho neso sibini. Ngale ndlela, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sithumele umyalezo ekungekho mntu unokuwuthumela. Kwaye ukuba awungomntu oneentloni, ungathumela lo myalezo ngevidiyo, onokubonisa ngayo ubuso bakho uthetha elinye lala mabinzana alandelayo.
- "Kuhlala kukho ukuphambana eluthandweni, kuhlala kukho isizathu esincinci sobudenge." Eli binzana asilobinzana nje elingenamkhethe. Imalunga nento eyathethwa nguNietzsche. Umbhali ongebaninzi abantu abayaziyo into ayibhalileyo kwaye ihamba kakuhle ngalo mzuzu.
- "Abantu ababini badibana ngentliziyo enye ukuze babelane ngezona zihlandlo zilungileyo kunye nezona zimnandi."
- "Into ebalulekileyo emtshatweni ayibali iiyure, kodwa ukuba iminyaka ibala."
- "Iminqweno yam emihle kolu hambo lutsha nolungaziwayo. Yonke iminqweno yam yothando, ubomi obude kunye nomonde. Umtshato owonwabileyo!"
- "Kuhle kangakanani ukwazi ukuba kusekho uthando olufana neyakho, ezimisele ukunikela ngobomi babo kwaye babelane ngayo ngonaphakade."