Yini ebheda ezinkundleni zokuxhumana
Akuyona imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuthi, njengoba isikhathi kanye nempucuko yabantu kuyathuthuka, isayensi nobuchwepheshe edaliwe, yenza izimo zokuphila ezijwayelekile noma zendabuko, ezinhle nezimbi, ziguquke futhi zivumelane ne Izikhathi ezintsha. Isibonelo, i isiqu ngokumelene nomunye, manje kwenziwa ngokusebenzisa Internet. Phakathi kwezinye izimo eziningi zempilo. Yingakho namuhla sizohlola lesi sihloko esibalulekile ngaso "yini ebheke ezinkundleni zokuxhumana".
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukukucacisa ukuthi, njengoba ulimi lwesiNgisi luvame ukubusa emhlabeni wonke ukudlulisa imibono nemiqondo, igama elithi "ukucupha" njengegama elifanayo "Hlala futhi Ukuhlukumeza" noma isenzo se "Landela umuntu". Kunjalo, nge-elekthronikhi noma ngokwedijithali, noma, nge Internet, ngokusebenzisa amawebhusayithi akhethekile, amapulatifomu e-RRSS, njenge I-Facebook ne-Instagram, phakathi kwabanye; noma izinhlelo zemiyalezo esheshayo, njenge I-WhatsApp neTelegram, phakathi kwabanye.
Ungamthulisa Kanjani Umuntu Ku-Instagram Ngaphandle Kokwazi
Kodwa, ngaphambi kokuqhubeka nalokhu okuthunyelwe mayelana "yini ebheke ezinkundleni zokuxhumana", sincoma ukuthi bese uhlola ezinye izinto eziwusizo okuqukethwe okuhlobene kwangaphambilini nge-RRSS, njenge:
Yini i-Stalking?: Ukuhlukunyezwa manje sekuku-inthanethi
Iyini i-Stalker futhi kungani abantu behlambalaza?
Un Stalker, ingachazwa kafushane ngokuthi lowo ochitha isikhathi sakhe ehlola lokho omunye akulayishayo futhi akwenzayo kuyi-Internet (ikakhulukazi ku-RRSS naku-Messaging Systems). Nokho, lokho kukodwa akwenzi kube ngokuzenzakalelayo a stalker. Njengoba, ngenxa yalokhu, kuyadingeka ukuthi kuzwakale futhi kwenziwe kwaziwe.
Ukuze, uma eya endizeni yokunakwa, ukwazisa isisulu sakho noma abantu besithathu ukuthi uyasilandela futhi uqoqa ulwazi lwethu, ngezinjongo ezithile noma ezinganqunyiwe, ukuthi uba "umlandeli", Ngawo wonke umqondo wegama.
Kusukela, nakuba umsebenzi walezi "ababukeli abathule" Ngokuvamile iqala ezimbalwa ezilula "Like" noma "Yabelana", cishe njalo ngesikhathi esithile, ngena esenzweni sokuxhumana ne "umuntu ohlosiwe" (isisulu); kungaba, ngokulebula, ukuphawula kokuqukethwe okuthunyelwe umuntu ohlukunyeziwe, ukuthumela imilayezo eyimfihlo noma eqondile kulowo ohlukunyeziwe noma abantu besithathu abaziwayo.
“Igama lesiNgisi laziwa ngokuthi i-stalkear, elivela esenzweni esithi “to stalk” okusho ukuthi «stalker», «umshushisi». Leli gama lisetshenziswa kumuntu ohlukumeza, oshushisa, ocasula kakhulu futhi ophikelelayo omunye umuntu, okuvame ukuba ngusaziwayo. Meaning of stalking
Izimbangela ezingaholela ekutheni umuntu abe nguStalker
Phakathi kwezimbangela, ezingabangela umuntu ukuba abe ngumuntu ongamazi noma ajwayelene naye ku-intanethi, abe yi-digital stalker (Stalker) ngokusemandleni akhe, singabala okulandelayo:
- Inkinga yengqondo noma ukuphazamiseka kwemvelaphi yengqondo.
- Ukwenqatshwa komphakathi komuntu ohlukunyeziwe noma abantu besithathu, okwaziwayo nokungaziwa.
- Isifiso esinamandla nesingalawuleki (obsession) sokufuna ukuba nokuxhumana nomphakathi noma ukusondelana ngokocansi nomuntu ohlukunyeziwe.
- Ukwenziwa kwephupho elibonakalayo, ukuziphindiselela noma isijeziso (inzondo), nomuntu ohlukunyeziwe, noma abanye abathandekayo babo abaseduze.
- Uphenyo ngezinjongo zobugebengu, kungaba ukweba imininingwane yakho ngokwemibhalo noma ama-akhawunti ku-inthanethi, noma ukweba, ukukhwabanisa noma ukuthumba isisulu noma abantu besithathu abahlobene.
Ungawagwema kanjani ama-Stalkers?
Ukuze ugweme lokhu, ungalandela lawa macebiso:
- Lungiselela ubumfihlo bezingosi zethu zokuxhumana kanye nezinhlelo zemiyalezo esheshayo ngokusemandleni akho. Futhi ngokwezithakazelo noma izidingo esizibheka njengezibalulekile.
- Ungathumeli ulwazi olumayelana nekhaya lethu elithile, umsebenzi noma izindawo zokufunda, ingasaphathwa eyokuzenzakalelayo, noma okungenani ibonakale esidlangalaleni kunoma ubani.
- Gwema ukushicilela izithombe ezibucayi ezingase zibe nezici ezingase zisenze ithagethi, njengalabo esibathandayo (izingane, abazali, ozakwethu) noma izindlu nezindawo abavame ukuzivakashela.
- Ungashicileli idatha ethile noma izithombe, mayelana nezinto eziyigugu zomuntu siqu, njengalezi: amakhadi asebhange, izinkontileka, okhiye, izinombolo zocingo, ama-imeyili, amakheli, ubucwebe, imali, izikhali, phakathi kokunye.
- Hlola ukuthi abanye abantu bathumela ini ngathi, ikakhulukazi uma besimaka. Ngalokhu kuyasiza ukuqinisekisa izimvume abalandeli bethu noma abangani abanazo, lapho sifinyelela ulwazi esilushicilelayo.
- Ungazamukeli izicelo zobungane ezivela kubantu abangaziwa, ku-RRSS, njengalokhu: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, phakathi kwabanye abaningi. Futhi uma nizamukela, gwema ukubanikeza noma yiluphi uhlobo lolwazi lomuntu siqu, njengalokhu: ama-imeyili, izinombolo zocingo, amakheli, phakathi kokunye.
- Bika noma yimiphi imilayezo eqondile noma eyimfihlo evela kubantu ongabazi. Njengokuthi, ama-imeyili asolisayo. Futhi gwema ukuchofoza elikuqukethe, ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukuvikela ukutheleleka ngegciwane noma ukwebiwa kwedatha. Futhi uma ubona noma yisiphi isimo esisolisayo sothile ku-inthanethi, sibike phambi kweziphathimandla ezifanele.
Isifingqo
Ngamafuphi, futhi manje njengoba sesikwazi "yini ebheke ezinkundleni zokuxhumana", kungenzeka izimbangela nemiphumela, okungcono kakhulu esingakwenza ukulandela uhlamvu u- izincomo ezinhle kanye nemikhuba emihle; ezindabeni ze ukuphepha kwekhompyutha kanye nokusetshenziswa kwe I-RRSS kanye nezinhlelo zemiyalezo esheshayo, ukugwema ukukhonjwa indlela yilaba bantu. Njengoba, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izizathu noma izifiso okungenzeka othile ube nazo zokusihlukumeza, into engcono kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi ukunakekela nokuvikela umkhaya wethu. izigxivizo zeminwe kanye nesithombe sedijithali ku-inthanethi, ngokusemandleni ethu.
khumbula ukwabelana ngalokhu umhlahlandlela osheshayo ohlobene nomusi, uma wawuthanda futhi wawuwusizo. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlola okokufundisa okwengeziwe iwebhu yethu, ukuqhubeka nokufunda okwengeziwe.